It’s a beautiful Fall day here in Missoula . Mom is attending a Memorial Service
for a family friend. This a normal thing for her to do – so this is HUGE
progress. This little apartment has seen a lot of activity for the last two
weeks.
Two weeks ago Mom had colon resection surgery. About a third
of her colon was removed (on the right side) along with the cancer inside the
colon and 40 lymph nodes outside but near the colon. She was in the hospital
for one week. Upon her arrival home, grandkids started coming to visit and it
has been a whirlwind of activity since then. They have all returned to their
homes and it’s darn quiet around here.
Emily and Ella arrived at midnight the day after Mom came
home and of course she stayed awake until we got home from the airport. Then
Megan and Zeb arrived the following night. Have you ever noticed how when there’s
a baby in the house, everyone else becomes who they are to the baby? For example,
Mom became Grandma Andersen, Zeb became Uncle Zeb, I became Grandma Heidi and
so on. Ella particularly liked feeling and pulling Uncle Zeb’s beard.
They were here just enough days to get to most of our
favorite restaurants. For those of you familiar with Missoula that would be, The Montana Club, Dairy Queen (Missoula’s DQ is different than any other) Paul’s Pancake Parlor, The Mustard Seed, Jaker’s, and we’ve added Café
Rio and somehow missed Hoagieville
this time. So many places to eat and so little time.
Grandma Andersen is doing VERY WELL. Her week in the
hospital seemed to go very quickly. She didn’t eat anything for 4 days and then
gradually started eating. It’s kind of amazing to me that they could basically take
out a “section of pipe” and reconnect the two ends and then just carry on like
usual. However, that seems to be what’s going on. There are literally no diet
restrictions.
FAQ’s:
How big was the
cancer?
About the size of a grapefruit
Were the lymph nodes
cancerous?
No
Will she have to have
chemo?
Probably not – don’t know for sure yet
What will change in
her life?
She will have the normal recovery you have after a surgery,
but in the not-too-distant future she will be buzzing around town in her big
old Buick. She will have periodic tests to determine whether or not the cancer
has returned.
What about the
pancreas and the thyroid?
No cancer and no cancer!!!